30 Days of Kink: Day One – Dom, Sub or Switch

Thirty days, thirty kinky questions. Sure it’s a writing exercise wrapped in a meme but I thought it would be a fun way of letting you get to know me a little better. I will answer all thirty of these questions as best I can but I will not be answering them back to back. You will just have to wait for each thrilling installment as they come. Interested in taking part? Here’s a list of the 30 Days of Kink questions courtesy of Tickleberry.

Day 1: You…

Dom, sub, switch? What parts of BDSM interest you? Give us an interesting in-depth definition of what that means to you. Basically define your kinky self for us.

30 Days of Kink

30 Days of Kink

In my personal life I am a switch with a high inclination to being dominant. Early on in my kinky lifestyle I started out as a sub where I enjoyed a good old-fashioned over the knee spanking… heck, I still do! There’s not much else more intimate than being thrust onto someone’s powerful lap with your pert bum in position, having your skirt lifted up and given ten good licks from an open palm. The burn only lasts for a short time but it is a lovely reminder of what has just transpired.

A lot of my experiences as a young sub have helped to mould me into the Domme you see before you today. When I cane someone, when I belittle someone, when I yank a nipple clamp off a sensitive nipple, I know exactly what my submissive feels in that very moment. I know how it stings and I love to feed off their pain.

The transition came when one partner I had asked if I could dominate him for a change and make him worship my feet. I have always been up for trying something new so I did it, taking everything I had learned from him and every previous dominant partner I knew before him. I was hooked instantly. On my first go I was completely addicted to the power!

As far as what aspects of BDSM interest me, I have always loved the thought that my submissives have given themselves completely over to me and that they trust me fully to take them on a physical and emotional journey. They trust me with the most precious body parts to take them to the edge of the edge and back again. I’m in the driver’s seat and that’s how it should be.

What are your thoughts?