Getting Started in Rope Bondage

Secretary Bound 1

Secretary Bound 1 by Zaranack on Deviantart


If you’ve perused the Kinky and Popular section of Fetlife or any stunning BDSM photography then you will have seen some great works of art made with rope. If you’ve always been enamoured by the intriguing images in erotic photography books which depict intricate rope bondage and would love to give it a try you may find that you have no clue how to take a pile of rope and turn it into a bondage playground. Today I’ll let you in on all the information you need when getting started in rope bondage. This guide will take you from the initial inkling if interest to just before you begin your first tie.
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No, I Do Not Want to Go See Fifty Shades of Grey

Fifty Shades of Grey

Fifty Shades of Grey

“Ohh 50 Shades of Grey! Let’s get drunk and go see it!” No thanks, I’d rather scrape my face off with a rusty screwdriver. “But surely you will want to go see it, you’re all kinky and shit!” No. Not just no, but Hell No. I’m actually getting tired of having this conversation. The idea of sitting in a large darkened room filled with over-sexualised drunk women giddy on shitty wine giggling at the ridiculous story playing out on the silver screen is not a priority on my list and I’ll tell you why.

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Review of Family Jewels: A Guide to Male Genital Play and Torment

Family Jewels A Guide to Male Genital Play and Torment

Family Jewels A Guide to Male Genital Play and Torment

If you’ve ever been interested in cock and ball torture also known as CBT, but were never sure how to go about it safely without permanent damage then you’ll find a lot of helpful information in Family Jewels: A Guide to Male Genital Play and Torment. This book is full of helpful advice, valuable safety information and even a few devious ideas for you to try out on your own. You may also enjoy the erotic stories the author uses to demonstrate how a cock torture scene might go. Today you get a bit of ‘Try before you buy’ as I review this helpful book.
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Review of The New Topping Book

The New Topping Book

The New Topping Book


If you’ve ever been topping and you’ve suddenly drawn a blank mid-scene The New Topping Book by authors Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy is an invaluable resource to help see you through any lapses in creativity. This mighty manual goes over all the different angles and aspects of BDSM you can possibly imagine and then some. So if you’ve ever become emotional during or after a scene and you’ve thought maybe you’re just not cut out to be a powerful Dominant then don’t fret because this book reassures you that you are not alone. It’s something that goes through almost every Top’s mind at some point.
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Review of Male Chastity: A Guide for Keyholders

Male Chastity: A Guide for Keyholders

Male Chastity: A Guide for Keyholders


Male chastity is one of the most popular fetishes around today. Every day more and more men become intrigued by the idea of handing over control of their most primal urge leaving their sexual freedom up to the whim of their partner. If you’re involved in a relationship and you’re wanting to break into chastity play, Male Chastity: A Guide for Keyholders is an invaluable tool in helping to persuade a vanilla partner to take part in your new found kinky crusade.
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Review of The Sexually Dominant Woman

The Sexually Dominant Woman

The Sexually Dominant Woman


I’m all for education in BDSM. When someone comes to me with a question about the scene I always bend over backwards to get them pointed in the right direction. When I first started out in kink I didn’t have anywhere to turn when I wanted to know something other than the people I played with. They weren’t always a knowledgeable bunch which is why I turned to reading all I could about this brave new world I was entering. Nearly twenty years later I still don’t claim to know it all which is why I have a vast library of kinky books. One of my favourites is The Sexually Dominant Woman by Lady Green which I will be reviewing today.
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