Thirty Days of Kink: Day Eleven – Ethics

Ethics

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Recently I was at a local munch and while the conversation at any munch can be varied. This time around one conversation ended up taking over the entire room and things got pretty heated. There was a follow-up discussion/argument on Fetlife which lasted about a week before the mods closed it all down. What was it that got everyone so riled up? The ethics of kink and choosing to be a Dominant who refuses to use safe-words.
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Thirty Days of Kink: Day 9 : Listen

Closer Nine Inch Nails

Closer Nine Inch Nails

This time out, the Thirty Days of Kink prompt is to post a kink related song or music video that I enjoy and go into detail on why it works for me. Well this one will be very difficult! I have so many songs that mean so many different things to me that if I don’t narrow it down I could be playing DJ all week. There are songs that I associate with kink because they were playing in the background during a very powerful session. There are songs with kinky lyrics that put a sadistic smile on my face. Then there are songs with videos that had very erotic videos. I even have a playlist a mile long called ‘Music to Scene to’.

I will do my best to keep it under 10 songs…
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Thirty Days of Kink: Day Eight – Look!

This installment of Thirty Days of kink is a call for a kinky image that I find erotic. Well looking through my photos I had to overlook a lot of great fetish fueled images that while I find extremely erotic for whatever reason (it’s usually the look in their eyes) because I will not post face pictures of my own personal slaves on this blog. I will not post any pictures of any paying clients full stop. If they gave me their written permission, I may post a photo or two without their face in frame but it would really have to be a special case.
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Thirty Days of Kink: Day Seven – Your Toys

Pinwheel play after flogging

Pinwheel play after flogging

I’ve got a lot of toys. A lot. I acquire new gear nearly every week whether its purchased by me from a fet shop, a pervertable from the supermarket or a tribute presented to me from an adoring fan. I currently have well over twenty floggers, five canes and at least ten paddles. If I’m completely honest, I’d have to say my favourite toy in my gear bag has to be my bag of pinwheels. Continue reading

Thirty Days of Kink: Day Six – Fantasies

One of my major personal fetishes is a controversial one. One that may even need a trigger warning for some. It’s one not to be taken likely and can have serious physical or emotional repercussions. It takes a strong person to stay in control of their emotions and fears while this type of edge play is taking place. If this sort of thing bothers you then you do not have to read any further. I’m talking about rape play fantasy.
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Thirty Days of Kink: Day Five – Your First Time

Buck Knife

Buck Knife


I can’t quite pinpoint my very first kinky experience. I may have been between 19 and 21 years old so this would make it around 1995 – 1997. I was seeing an on again off again boyfriend in between random dates with not very interesting men. It seemed every time we got back together the passion was intense and the boldness of our sexual adventures were outdone on every encounter. We were still kids in a sense but we lived for upping the ante each time we got back together.
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Thirty Days of Kink: Day Three – Discoveries

What better way to spend a chilly January evening than to tell you about the origins of my kinky lifestyle. There’s always a beginning to every story and even a kink-wagon such as myself had to get started somewhere. You didn’t think I walked out of the womb wearing thigh high patent leather boots and swinging a crop, did you? Sit tight and Mistress Selena will tell you where it all began.
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