Family Jewels: A Guide to Male Genital Play and TormentFamily Jewels: A Guide to Male Genital Play and Torment doesn’t beat around the bush when it comes to beating around a dick. You feel immediately welcomed into the world of CBT giving you a confidence boosting feeling of, ‘You CAN do this!’ Family Jewels won’t blow smoke up your arse or waste your time with fluffy nonsense. You’ll get straight to the point advice on everything from negotiation, buying the right tools for the job, getting down to it and aftercare. For such a concise book, it is bursting with excellent information.
You’ll dive in head first as the author Hardy Haberman starts the book out with a brief background on CBT. He explains why it’s a part of some couples’ sexuality and how to broach the subject with a partner. Once that’s out of the way you’ll get a thorough male anatomy lesson which helps lay the foundation for what’s to come in the book. This is crucial information so that you don’t cause any nasty infections or cause permanent damage to the genitals.
From there you’ll get a lesson on negotiation when it comes to cock and ball torture. This is where the Top and bottom in the scene discuss desires, hesitations, what’s off limits and how to communicate that you want more stimulation or that you need the scene to end immediately. It’s a good practice to have when entering into any scene.
“… For the purposes of cock and ball play, some of the issues you will want to negotiate include: types of stimulation, intensity of stimulation, context of play, combining types of play and safewords…”
Over the next few chapters, Family Jewels: A Guide to Male Genital Play and Torment will walk you through the different types of cock and ball torture explaining what you’ll need, how to do it and even share a little erotica to put you in the right mindset.
At the beginning of each chapter, Haberman lays out what you’ll need for the scene in what he calls his ‘recipes’. You’ll learn about butterfly boards, flogging, rope binding, electro sex, urethral sounding and violet wand play. Family Jewels: A Guide to Male Genital Play and Torment fills you with the knowledge, guidance and confidence to take on a CBT scene and rock it like a pro.
“…Sometimes the difference between good pain and bad pain is one of “head space” or mental state…”
If you’re thinking about giving cock and ball torture a go then I would highly recommend picking up a copy of Family Jewels: A Guide to Male Genital Play and Torment and give it a good read whether you’re the Top or the bottom.
This book is a wealth of information and you will be pleased to have such a valuable resource in your kinky library. I bought my copy for my Kindle which made my hour long commute go a hell of a lot faster but it is also available in paperback form from Amazon.
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