Domination From a Distance with Butt Plugs

Crystal Delights Butt Plug

Crystal Delights Butt Plug

As a Domme I have to be very creative. I do my best to keep things interesting so that nobody, most of all me, gets bored. There is one constant that I like to use when providing domination from a distance and that’s the use of this week’s Kink of the Week – butt plugs. It takes no time for me at all to demand that a sub inserts a butt plug before a chosen task but the creativity lies in what the task is that they have to do while plugged.

Butt  Plug

Butt Plug

I’ve asked subs to insert their butt plug an hour before I visit to get their bums warmed up for me. I’ve asked them to wear their butt plug the entire time I’m there to see them. They’ve been instructed to wear them out with me whether it’s to a munch, a restaurant or a bumpy drive in the Mistress mobile. For the ones who live far away from me sometimes they must endure wearing a butt plug while checking out the Kinky & Popular section on FetLife before they’re allowed to have a wank.

There’s something so simple about the basic butt plug. For most they’re a great way to warm up your arse before anal sex but I prefer to use them as a part of my dominance and power as a Domme. It’s a way to penetrate my subs anally while I’m not around. It keeps them submissive and serves them with a powerful reminder of who’s in charge. In times of high protocol service it’s the submissive trifecta of butt plug, chastity device and forced feminisation with a frilly French maid’s uniform. Tea service has never been so erotic!

newbuttplugIt’s even fun to watch as the butt plug slides into place. The slippery tip slithers past their hairy ring piece. It slips in a little deeper with every tiny thrust until the widest point slips in past their sphincter with a satisfying swallow. Once fully seated my devoted sub slides even deeper into his submission to me. His bum feels full and used while my heart swells with pride that my subbie has taken such a big butt plug with ease.

There have even been times where I’ve had all three of my loving slaves all plugged up with their individual butt plugs, Slave Felicity, Slave Olive and Slave Pony. It feels amazing to penetrate all three of my boys simultaneously from afar.

Sometimes I even like to get in on the butt plug action with my very own Crystal Delights butt plug. No particular reason why, just that fulfilling satisfaction of constant anal stimulation.

Kink of the Week

7 thoughts on “Domination From a Distance with Butt Plugs

  1. You have an impressive array of plugs! I am really getting a hankering for one of the jeweled ones after seeing so many during this meme.

    And yes, I have always felt that buttplugs are especially suited to distance play! You sound like you have made an art of it. :-)

  2. Buttplugs are definitely very suitable for dominance, in my opinion as a sub. It makes me feel especially submissive when He expects me to wear the plug, whether in the house or out, and I never know whether there will be an ‘award’ afterwards.

    Rebel xox

  3. I do love the Crystal Delights plug, though I don’t wear it so much as my two favourites. Glass is delightful for temperature play :)
    And I do love being dominated from afar, be it butt plugs or other tasks where I must provide picture proof of my obedience!

    ~Kazi xxx

  4. Very hot reading this from the perspective of the domme. Sounds like you get a lot pleasure from this as well as your subs. I love your collection particuly your crystal delights one these glass toys are so very pretty!
    Thank you very much for your comment so detailed and exactly what I needed to begin my own fun :)

  5. I love the distance thing, when Sirs calls me and tells me to wear my plug, even in the knowledge I won’t be seeing him it just adds an extra level of submission for me.

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