Male chastity is one of the most popular fetishes around today. Every day more and more men become intrigued by the idea of handing over control of their most primal urge leaving their sexual freedom up to the whim of their partner. If you’re involved in a relationship and you’re wanting to break into chastity play, Male Chastity: A Guide for Keyholders is an invaluable tool in helping to persuade a vanilla partner to take part in your new found kinky crusade.
Male Chastity: A Guide for Keyholders
This book has more than one audience: The vanilla girlfriend of a closet kinkster and the Dominant Woman looking to further her knowledge in the subject of keyholding. While this book is mainly aimed at couples, Dommes can still find great advice on how to handle a chastity sub. It starts off addressing the vanilla partner, telling her to keep calm and think about why her partner may have given her this book. It tells her not to judge and to hear her partner out. This book sort of sells her on the idea of locking up her partner’s cock in a chastity device. The bottom line is: Chastity makes him more submissive and more attentive to her needs.
The idea of controlling her partner’s orgasms may not be new to her but this book gives her the permission to take her control a step further and with his permission! She’ll revel in the thought of him pleasing her with countless mind-blowing orgasms before he begs her for release. She’ll delight in the adoration he provides as he’s then permitted to have one of the most powerful orgasms of his life… all from keeping his cock under lock and key. Male Chastity: A Guide for Keyholders brings to light and puts into words what the chastity play fetish is really all about.I won’t give away any spoilers because I do highly recommend picking up a copy of this excellent book for yourself but I’d like to share a couple of gems from this very handy book. The part where it goes over how “…delaying gratification allows more time to linger over the whole experience, and makes the ultimate climax all the more explosive when it comes” paints a picture of how her partner’s desire will build exponentially over time as he does every task set forth by his Dominant partner no matter how degrading, embarrassing, menial or difficult. The truth is, he wants out and he’ll do anything she says just to get that release. The dangling carrot of an intense orgasm weighs on his mind as he’s scrubbing the toilets or doing the washing up and once you let him loose… stand back that boy is about to explode!
“…When a man’s sexual release is delayed, he becomes more and more aroused. The more you tease him and deny him release, the hornier he gets (and the more eager to please you).” Think about it, the more you’re reminded you can’t have something you want it even more. His commitment to his partner has deepened and he will do anything to please her to earn a release.
“…The reward that comes too easily is less worth having, so make him work hard for your approval: it will mean more to him if he really has to earn it.” A man who is not locked up in chastity is free to have sex whenever he likes whether it’s with himself, his partner, a one night stand or as part of an affair (yet another reason to lock his cock!) There may be times when he can go weeks or months without sexual stimulation because he’s not constantly thinking about it. Sex is always available to him in one form of another so it becomes part of the routine. Lock him up for a day and his arousal levels shoot through the roof. That chastity device is a constant reminder of what he can’t have so he’ll work hard to earn a release.
It’s up to the couple to negotiate a chastity sentence but she should never be afraid to push his limits just a little bit further, after all a fetish should be for the enjoyment of both parties, not just one!
Male Chastity: A Guide for Keyholders also goes over ways to tease him while locked up, safe ways to store the key securely, and where to go once the chastity device has been removed. It gives the reader warning that the chaste male may explode in a torrent of passion and while the lovemaking may not last long, it will be amazing! Here’s a handy tip: make sure you get your orgasms in before you release him! He will devour your pussy like a wild animal devours its prey. Isn’t that how it should be?
If you’re thinking about asking your partner to become the keyholder to your most intimate body part and you’re finding it hard to put your thoughts into words, then I highly recommend presenting your vanilla Goddess with Male Chastity: A Guide for Keyholders. It will certainly help win her over and make her want to take control in the bedroom.